Wake when the world still whispers gray,
when the sky can’t decide on staying dark or daring blue.
Open your hands. Feel how heavy the small things are—
keys, mugs, promises, your own pulse.
Everything wants to be carried,
even you.
Remember: no one told the seed how to break open—
it just did, because it had to.
Keep breathing. That’s the first and only rule.

You will not always be brave.
You will spill the light you’ve been saving.
You will mistake a pause for an ending.
Still, keep walking. The ground remembers every footstep
and forgives. Listen—somewhere, a sparrow
is making a whole morning from dust and leftover rain.
You are allowed to begin again,
as many times as it takes.

Keep breathing. That’s the first and only rule.

By now the trees have dressed themselves again—
green after months of gray surrender.
They don’t ask if they deserve it.
They just turn toward sun, reckless with belief.
So when the day breaks open like mercy,
step into it.
Call this moment enough,
and mean it.

Keep breathing. That’s the first and only rule.

42 responses to “Instructions on not giving up”

  1. SRIKANTH Avatar

    This poem is a beautiful anthem of resilience. Its central, repeating command—”Keep breathing. That’s the first and only rule”—anchors the reader in the most fundamental act of being alive. The poem finds profound strength in the natural world (the seed, the trees, the sparrow) as models of unthinking, necessary growth and renewal. It grants the reader permission to be imperfect—to be unbrave, to spill light, to begin again “as many times as it takes.” Ultimately, it’s a call to accept the mercy of a new moment and to “call this moment enough,” a radical act of self-acceptance and peace.

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    1. Carol anne Avatar

      Thank you and thank you for reading xx

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  2. Reena Saxena Avatar

    This is lovely – Remember: no one told the seed how to break open—
    it just did, because it had to.

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    1. Carol anne Avatar

      Thank you, Rena xx

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  3. Sweeter Than Nothing Avatar

    Love this and it’s so true, I have been on the brink many times and I feel like if I just keep breathing, I can keep going.

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    1. Carol anne Avatar

      Yes breathing very important. Glad you liked it. Thanks for reading X

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  4. Ephemeral Encounters Avatar

    Inspiring lines Carol Anne ❤️🥰

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    1. Carol anne Avatar

      Thanks, Maggie 😊🪷

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  5. poetisatinta Avatar

    Great strength and resilience here Carol anne, and I love the refrain line 🙌

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  6. memadtwo Avatar

    Carol Anne, I love your refrain. So many phrases caught my attention–“Feel how heavy the small things are”–“You will mistake a pause for an ending.”–“Call this moment enough”–just a few. This really sings. (K)

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    1. Carol anne Avatar

      Thank you, Kay. I appreciate you. Your comment means a lot me 😊

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  7. tenzenmen Avatar

    I love this phrase/idea “Feel how heavy the small things are….your own pulse”.

    Are we the only animals that go against nature?

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    1. Carol anne Avatar

      Yes, I think we are 💜💜

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  8. Violet Lentz Avatar

    How can something that seems so simple- be so difficult sometimes to put into action. Wonderful empowering poem!

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    1. Carol anne Avatar

      I asked myself the same violet, but yes, it is difficult to put it into action a lot of times 💖💖

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  9. ben Alexander Avatar

    Carol Anne, I really like “the ground remembers every footstep / and forgives.” It feels gentle and wise without pretending things are easy.

    ~David

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    1. Carol anne Avatar

      Thank you, David. That’s very kind of you to say. I’m glad you liked that line. 😀🥳💝

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    1. Carol anne Avatar

      thank you so much🩷🩷

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  10. memadtwo Avatar

    Carol Anne–I thought I wrote a comment, but I don’t see it here. I don’t remember it exactly, but I really love your imagery and also the refrain. (K)

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    1. Carol anne Avatar

      Thank you, Kay. That means a lot me 💛💛💖💖

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    1. Carol anne Avatar

      Thank you so much 😃💗💗

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  11. SelmaMartin Avatar

    this is just so beautiful.

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    1. Carol anne Avatar

      Thanks, Selma xox

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      2. Carol anne Avatar

        🤍🤍🌷🌷

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  12. Lauren Scott, Author Avatar

    Beautiful and wise words, Carol Anne. xo

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    1. Carol anne Avatar

      Thank you, Lauren 💜💜

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      1. Carol anne Avatar

        🖤🖤😊😊

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  13. murisopsis Avatar

    Carol anne, I love the theme and the cyclical nature of, well, nature! Bravo!

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    1. Carol anne Avatar

      Thanks, Val 🤣😙😆

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  14. ben Alexander Avatar

    hi, Carol Anne❣️

    Just wanna let you know that this week’s W3, hosted by our beloved Sarah Whiley, is now live:

    https://skepticskaddish.com/2025/10/22/w3-prompt-182-weave-written-weekly/

    Much love,
    David

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    1. Carol anne Avatar

      I didn’t need the reminder after all this week. I participated without a reminder ha ha but I appreciate your reminder every week David. 🥰

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