I got nominated! Liebster award!

The lovely and gorgeous and wonderful Bee over at the bee writes, has nominated me for the leibster award! Thank you, Bee! Its a good thing you republished this post, as I never saw it firstt time around!
The rules are simple. They are posted below.

Acknowledge the blog who nominated you.
Answer the 11 questions your nominator asked.
Nominate 11 other bloggers.
Ask them 11 questions.
Let them know you have nominated them.

So first I will answer Bee’s questions she has set for me.
❤ here goes!

Where do you blog from? Mostly either I am blogging from my bedroom, or the kitchen, or if I am at my parents I blog from my bedroom at their house, sometimes I blog from my volunteer job or from the basement clug too though!
What is your motto (for life, your blog, your work… whichever you choose)? Live while you can! Your only as old as you feel! Grab life and run with it!
What is your favourite blog post (yes please choose your own 🙂 )? I dont know! Probably ones about my relationship with my therapist and psychiatrist.
Coffee or tea? It depends on who you ask in the system, I carol anne am a big tea drinker, but Liz is a coffee junky. Then there are those of us who love coke, or pepsi.

What is your favourite foreign recipe? I dont have one. I just like to try new food and new recipes!
What is your favourite animation (sorry I have a thing for animations at the moment and need some input 😉 ) I dont have one! Is that japanese animation? I dont know any.
And as we are on it: What is your favourite movie? I loved marley and me, mama mia, annie, mrs. doubtfire, I now pronounce you chuck and larry.
If you had the power to change the world, what would you change? I would make it so there was peace. I would also get rid of all politics.
Tell us three of your strengths! I am determined, patient, empathetic!
Tell us your preferred way of pampering yourself! I love to have bubble baths. I like to sit and relax in them.
Tell us 11 places you would like to go to! Hmm this is hard! Ok, here goes…Canada, new zealand, australia, germany, netherlands, poland, turkey, donegal, greece, mayo, and scotland!

And now for my nominees, well, I am not nominating anyone! I am breaking that rule! I encourage all of you to do this! Take part, come on you know you wanna!
So here are my 11 questions for anyone who wants to take part!

who is your fave celebrity?
do you like the dentist?
what is your favourite junk food?
Do you write about your blogging milestones?
Do you have any bad habits?
what is the best advice anyones ever given you?
Chinese or indian food?
Long walks or car rides?
Are you a patient person?
Complete this phrase…if life gives you lemons…
Name one of your inspirations?

So there you go! Have fun! And thanks again to Bee for the nomination!
🙂 ❤

Bee's post is here


26 questions A sorta q and A about me

Suze had this on her blog, you know suze from suzieland 2 or obsolete childhood?
Well I stole it hahaha 😀
So here goes, a little more about me…

Share your profile picture. I dont have one. If I did I would share it with you all.
Who are you named after? I am named after my moms best childhood friend, even my middle name is after a friend of moms in childhood as well lol.
Do you like your handwriting? Well I dont write since I cant actually see.
What’s your favorite lunchmeat Roast beef or turkey.
Longest relationship? Well besides those with my family, it is with my best childhood friend, Pam, we went to school together and were friends for 12 years.
Do you still have your tonsils? No. i got them out when i was six.
Would you bungee jump? No way. I’d be too nervous.
Do you untie your shoes when you take them off? I never wear shoes with laces well rarely so no I dont.
Favorite ice-cream? Ben and jerrys peanut butter cup.
What’s the first thing you notice about people? Their voice, or whether they have a sense of humour.
Football or baseball? Neither, I am not a sports fan.
What color pants are you wearing? Navy.
Last thing you ate? Yogurt and cerial, my breakfast.
If you were a crayon what color would you be? Pink or purple.
Favorite smell? Vanilla, baking, white guardinia, scented candles, any kind
Who was the last person you spoke to on the phone? My mom.
Hair color? Brown but its naturally black.
Eye color? One green and one hazel, lol.
Favorite food to eat? too many, chili, curry, spaghetti, pizza, soup, too many hahaha.
Scary movies or happy endings? Happy endings, I’m too chicken to watch scary movies.
Last movie you watched? In the theatre, mama mia 2, at home, the greatest showman.
Favorite holiday? Christmas!
Beer or wine? Wine.
Favorite day of the week? Saturday I love my weekends!
Three or (four) favorite bloggers you want to learn more about? I have too many favourite bloggers. I cant choose. Whoever wants to do this then do it.
Added info you didn’t know you wanted? Lol what? What does that even mean? Ok for some added info here, I will just say my guide dog is nitro and he’s 7 years old. I will say that i have one sister, laura, she’s 28, I will say that I love my sense of humour, and I love life in general.

Random stuff about me

When people come to you for help, what do they usually want help with?
tech stuff, advice about family etc

What takes up too much of your time?


What do you wish you knew more about?
space, the ocean

What would be your first question after waking up from being cryogenically frozen for 100 years?

what was invented while I was dead?
What are some small things that make your day better?

My dog, reading, talking to my friends

Who’s your go to band or artist when you can’t decide on something to listen to?

What’s the best way to start the day?
with coffee!

What shows are you into?
law and order SVU, true crime shows, medical shows

What TV channel doesn’t exist but really should?

Don’t know

Who has impressed you most with what they’ve accomplished?
to many people to mention
What age do you wish you could permanently be?

What TV show or movie do you refuse to watch?

Sponge bob

What would be your ideal way to spend the weekend?
relaxing in a hotel or at a beach
What is something that is considered a luxury, but you don’t think you could live

my phone

What’s your claim to fame?

I have been in the news paper a few times lol

What’s something you like to do the old-fashioned way?
grocery shop

What’s your favorite genre of book or movie?

Books anything true, movies comedy

How often do you people watch?

All the time

What have you only recently formed an opinion about?
US politics

What’s the best single day on the calendar?

Xmas day!

What are you interested in that most people haven’t heard of?

Can’t think of anything.

How do you relax after a hard day of work?

Hot shower and writing.

What was the best book or series that you’ve ever read?
any cathy glass book.
Whats the farthest you’ve ever been from home?
I was in the USA
What is the most heartwarming thing you’ve ever seen?
Any kind gesture is always nice to see.
What is the most annoying question that people ask you?
Were you born blind?

49 things about me

Zodiac sign


3 fears

wasps, spiders, lightning

3 things I love

my family

My friends

My pets

My best friend

I have more than one.

Last song I listened to

happy by ed sheeran

7. 3 Turn ons

Good attitude

Sense of humour

Fun loving

3 Turn offs


Bad attitude

Know it all

What colour underwear Im wearing right now

I dont know lol

How many tattoos/piercings do I have

My ears are pierced, no tattoos.

The reason I started blogging

To raise awareness of did and ptsd and to have a place to come to vent and just be me.

How I feel right now


Something I really really want

To lose another 60 pounds.

My current relationship status

Taken, but unable to see my partner now for a long time.

Meaning behind my URL

I used to write only about therapy so that is why my blog was initially called therapy bits.

My favourite movie

Marley and me

My favourite song

Right now its slame by sia.

My favourite band

I like a lot of different people

19. 3 Things that upset me

having flashbacks

fighting with my friends

when people are mean unnecessarily

3 Things that make me happy




What I find attractive in other people

Fun loving


Someone I miss

My gramma

Someone I love

My sister

My relationship with my parents

Mostly good nowadays

My favourite holiday


My closest blogging friend

bee, emilia, trina, cyranny, so many…

Someone famous Id date

Dont know

A confession

I once stole a bra from walmart but it was accidental

3 Things that annoy me easily

Being asked the samething more than once

Being late

Someone trying to control me

My favourite animal





Panda bear

My pets

my guide dog nitro

One thing Ive lied about

Having my shit together and being happy.

Something thats currently worrying me

My partner being in residential

An embarrassing moment

Saying sorry to a coat hanging on a rail thinking it was a person.

Where I work

I dont work

Something thats constantly on my mind

My past

3 Habits I have

twirling my hair


overthinking everything

My future goals

lose the extra weight I am carrying

Work on my past in therapy

Something I fantasise about

Not being responsible for everything all the time

My favourite store

dont have one but I do like bookstores, music stores etc.

My favourite food

indian, chinese, italian and mexican

What I did yesterday

went to see dr. barry, went to slimming world

Something Im talented at

Worrying about everything

My idea of the perfect date

hmmm let me see maybe a romantic meal by candlelight

My celebrity crush


My favourite blog

I am my own island

its good to be crazy sometimes

cyrannys cove

my inner mish mash

so so many more to many to mention

Number of kids I want

I cant have kids, my ovaries were removed.

Do I smoke/drink

I do drink but not regularly. I dont smoke.

One word that describes me


My favourite quote

Its never too late to have a happy childhood.

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Question of the day

Do you dream? If you do do you remember your dreams? Are they vivid?

My dreams are mostly vivid. sometimes I have night terrors and nightmares. I always almost always remember my dreams.
I hate that. I’d rather not remember them.
How about you?

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ABC tag!

Age: 38 Books: Currently reading groomed by casey watson Colours: pink is my favourite Dream: To just enjoy life Everyday start with: A cup fo coffee Flower: tulip, sunflower, or daisy! Goals: lose weight, keep improving our internal communication, be happy! Height: 5 ft 1 inch In love with: My girlfriend, food, reading, music, my dog. Job: volunteer with cork city partnership on their friendly call service Kids: yeah! lots of internal kids Last thing I ate: peanuts Magic power: to be able to read minds Number of fears: Quite a few Outfit: Currently wearing my pj’s Passions: Reading, writing, singing, volunteering Quotes: Its never to late to have a happy childhood Reasons to smile: Rain, a good book, gratitude, animals, food, family, bedtime Season: Easily summer! Travels: new zealand, canada, poland Under water animals: dolphins fascinate me Vacation: would love to go on a cruise Worst habit: talking too much, lol X men character: I have no idea what this even means Your favourite food: Anything indian, italian, or chinese! Zodiac sign: Aries

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10 questions and answers!

Morning or night owl?

Morning person all the way!

How do you drink coffee?

I drink mine with milk and 3 sweeteners!

Beach or mountains?

Beach! I love it its so peaceful to me.

What was your favorite thing to play as a child?

I loved playing with dolls. I was a girly girl what can I say!

What is on your nightstand right now?

My amazon echo, a mug, my phone

What smell do you love?

The smell of my psychiatrists perfume.

What is your favorite season?

Autumn because christmas is in that season and its my fave holiday!

Do you prefer e-readers or paper books?

I love my kindle! I love audio books too though.

If you could travel anywhere in the world next, where would it be?

to see my partner in Illinois.

If you could learn to do anything, what would it be?

Play an instrament or crochet!

What are your answers to any and all of these questions??

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