Hi guys

I need prayers for my dad, if you could all send up prayers I’d be so grateful.

My dad went back to his GP this morning. He has ulcerative colitis, and arthritis, and he recently had blood tests, and he also was recently on antibiotics for a chest infection.

The results of his blood tests show that he is cachectic.

Here is what that means.

"Cachectic" describes a person who is suffering from cachexia, a severe state of physical wasting and weakness.

It’s usually marked by:

  • Extreme weight loss (especially muscle mass, not just fat)
  • Loss of strength
  • General physical debilitation
  • Often accompanied by fatigue, loss of appetite, and sometimes inflammation

Cachexia isn’t just “being thin” — it’s a medical condition, often linked to serious illnesses like cancer, chronic infections, advanced heart failure, or late-stage COPD.

It comes from the Greek kakos (“bad”) + hexis (“condition” or “state”) — literally “bad condition.”

He’s very ill. The doctor gave him a letter for his bowel consultant. And he told mom to ring the doctors secretary to see if he can be fast tracked in to see the doctor.

Mom rang, and the secretary said that he’s scheduled for a colonoscopy on September 8th, but it might happen sooner, if there is an opening.

He will probably have to be kept in hospital if things keep getting worse.

It is extremely worrying.

22 responses to “Prayers needed for my dad”

  1. Belvesuscounselling Avatar

    Sorry to hear your dad is so poorly. Sending lots of good wishes to you all. I hope he gets the treatment he needs quickly x

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    1. Carol anne Avatar

      Thank you, I’ll keep everyone posted xx

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  2. willowdot21 Avatar

    Sending prayers 🙏🙏

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    1. Carol anne Avatar

      Thank you, Willow 💞💞

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  3. Ephemeral Encounters Avatar

    Hugs Carol Anne ❤️🙏❤️
    I am so sorry to read this 😪
    I will keep your dad in my thoughts.

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    1. Carol anne Avatar

      Thanks, Maggie. That is very kind of you. I really appreciate it. ❤️❤️

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      1. Ephemeral Encounters Avatar

        No thanks needed Carol Anne.
        I have been there, it is a worry.
        Keep us posted ❤️❤️ and look after you too 🤗

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      2. Carol anne Avatar

        It’s definitely stressful and definitely a worry I didn’t need right now 🩷🩷

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      3. Ephemeral Encounters Avatar

        Hugs Carol Anne 💕💕

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      4. Carol anne Avatar

        🙂😘🙂😘

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  4. Sheree Avatar

    Sorry to read this Carol Anne, sending supportive thoughts

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    1. Carol anne Avatar

      Thank you for the kind supportive thoughts, Sherry xx

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  5. Sadje Avatar

    Sending prayers for your dad Carol.

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    1. Carol anne Avatar

      Thanks, I appreciate them 🩵🩵

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      1. Sadje Avatar

        🙏🏼🙏🏼🙏🏼

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      2. Carol anne Avatar

        🙂🙂💛💛

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  6. hitandrun1964 Avatar

    I’m so sorry to learn about your father. I hope he gets help and is on his way to being well soon. Sending healing energy.

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    1. Carol anne Avatar

      Thank you, Gigi. He’s not going to heal from this, but I hope he will be able to be comfortable going forward. 🪷🪷

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  7. Sarah curran Avatar

    So sorry about your dad being so unwell, the worry is horrendous. Take care of yourself too because we often neglect ourselves trying to help others. I hope he gets looked after soon.

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    1. Carol anne Avatar

      Yes, the worry is awful, thank you Sarah. I appreciate your kindness ❤️❤️

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