Car crash update. We may be getting a settlement next week!

so the solicitor just called me. she said she’s waiting on my medical report to come in, but my doctor has forwarded it on to her, and it will be with her on Monday. She told me she’s going to court on Monday morning, and the insurance guy who is dealing with the injuries board and our claim will be there, and he’s meeting with her to maybe give us an offer, she said he’ll recommend a settlement amount, and if she feels its appropriate for us, she said she’d be in touch with us early next week.
So we may have an offer by next week!
I hope we do! I’ll be delighted to have things wrapped up!
I am wondering if we do get an offer how much we’ll get. I think well I am guessing around 5000 or maybe anything up to 10 thousand.
I doubt it will be more than that though but thats a good sum if you ask me!
I can do a lot with that amount of money! So I will keep you all posted and if we get an offer that part of things to do with the accident will be done and dusted!
If you pray then please pray for us that the offer will be a good one!


Morning ramble

I’m having a very productive morning. My PA amanda is here. We went to get my money out of the ATM, and while we were at the local shopping mall, we went to the butchers, and I got a nice stir fry, with steak in it. I will have that today for dinner. I also bought garlic potatos. I love garlic potatos. Amanda cooked the stir fry for me, and all I need to do now is heat it up later on when I want to eat it. I never got to the gym. My motivation to exercise just isnt there. I am going to push myself though to do a 1 mile walk later today, I have a 1 mile walk on my phone, which takes 20 minutes to do. I will try really hard to do that walk every day this weekend. I have to try harder. I am being far too lax about exercising. And I know thats not good for me. I know I need to be trying. I am wasting my gym embership, but I will get back there too soon. I’ll start with the walk on my phone first, and build up to going back to the gym. I am not going to go volunteering today. I dont feel in the mood. I still feel very impacted by the recent death of one of my clients. I need to try to text Eileen later on today and see if we can do a phone check in. I know I spoke to dr. barry on Wednesday about it, but I just feel I need to also talk to Eileen. I know if she is able to she’ll give me a phone check in. She knows I wouldnt ask unless it was urgent. And I feel this is urgent. I cant stop thinking about the client. I keep replaying the conversation my supervisor had with me over in my head. It freaks me out to know that she lay on the floor all night, possibly alive for some of th e time. I just feel that I cant help anyone today. I dont feel in the right mind frame to help anyone right now. I feel I Just need a break from it today. My plan is to have an afternoon where I do self care things, and chill out. Just sit at home, watch tv, read, etc. Mom is coming over tomorrow, and I am planning on going to my friend Normas house on sunday if she’s free. So I do have a few things planned for this weekend. I hope your all having a nice start to your friday.


3 things challenge, jan 18th 2019

Todays prompts are: overpowered, civilization, invasion

An invasion of emotion
invading my mind
I am overpowered by it
All I want to do is run
Run from it
Run into another civilisation
One that is very different
So different from mine
That it changes me
Changes my mindset
Emotions can kill
They can really kill


There comes a time…

There comes a time in your life, when you walk away from all the drama and people who create it. You surround yourself with people who make you laugh. Forget the bad and focus on the good. Love the people who treat you right, pray for the ones who do not. Life is too short to be anything but happy. Falling down is a part of life, getting back up is living.
Jose N. Harris


Time to be weighed in 😛

Well it’s that time of the week again. Time to go get weighed. Hopefully I’ll be down. I’m staying positive. I’ve done my best. Wish me luck guys 😜

Sad news. I lost another client

Yesterday afternoon I went volunteering, as i normally do. My supervisor picked me up. On the way there, she gave me some bad news. Actually it wasnt just bad news, it was quite shocking.
She told me that one of our clients had died. She was 72 years old. She died last Thursday evening, what had happened was, on Friday afternoon I had tried to call her and I didnt get through to her. So I told my supervisor that I didnt manage to get through. My supervisor thought she might be sleeping as she did that sometimes in the afternoon. So we thought no more of it and we said we’d try again on Monday.
On Saturday morning my supervisor was at home and she had to look up a website about funeral arrangements for a family member. She scrolled to the section for cork, and there before her eyes, the clients name appeared. Of course she was immediately in shock. She immediately called the clients next of kin to see what had happened to her.
What happened is quite morbid, but I will tell you anyway. On thursday evening the client fell down the stairs, backwards. She lay there on the floor all night, we arent sure if she was killed upon falling, or if she lay there for a while still alive. On friday morning, a passer by saw some blood coming out from under her door, and they called the police, and when the police went there they found her dead.
Of course we’re all in shock. She’d been a client of friendly call for the past 8 years. My supervisor took it really hard as she’d been visiting her one to one for a while as well as having her be on the phone service. I’m actually also in shock myself about it. The fact of how it happened, it is very disturbing to me.
You just really never know from day to day what is going to happen to you do you? I mean we talked to her on Thursday, she was fine, then this happened to her that night. Its very disturbing. She had a lot of serious mental health issues, and she was very hard work, but despite all that, none of us wanted anything like this to happen to her. Its just awful. So that was what I faced yesterday. I wasnt ok for the entire afternoon after hearing it. It really effected me deeply.
I’m a little bit better today. After a long chat about it to dr. barry I feel much better. I am reminded though of just how precious life really is. And also of how my work can and does really impact me on a deep level. I love my work, but I hate losing clients, and this is the second client who I’ve lost in the space of 2 months.


So guys, I haven’t disappeared, I’m just busy

I swear guys I haven’t had a minute to myself all morning, I was at college this morning, just finished about 20 minutes ago. Just had enough time to go to my parents and have some lunch. This afternoon I am seeing Doctor Barry. I am looking forward to seeing her. Then this evening I have to go to slimming world. So I barely have a minute to myself to breathe. But I like being busy, it keeps me distracted, I like to have things to do. I’m glad I’m busy. I should be able to write later, later this afternoon I mean. I have some news that I need to tell you all. Something that happened to me yesterday when I was at volunteering, but I will post more about that later. Anyway I just thought I’d check in and let people know that I’m still around, still alive, and I’m okay.