sitting here
happy as can be
hair all done
feel so beautiful
dark brown
blow dried to perfection
or to my perfection
pretty as a picture
or so I think
Doing this one thing
Has made me feel great
As I celebrate international womens day today
I think…
Us women
We should treat ourselves more often
Self care is so important

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Love is in da blog feb. 11th 2019

The prompt for today for love is in da blog is, a song from the decade 1959-1968!

Oh I love this kinda music!
Well first, here are the rules!

Love Is In Da Blog Rules/suggestions

Join in! No matter where, when and with what. You missed the first day or week? Dont worry. Just jump in when it suits you
Send us the link! The ping-back option does not always work so please leave a link in the comments of the post on the day you take part.
Tag your post either with Love Is In Da Blog or LoIsInDaBl or Love Is In Da Blog 19 or #LoIsInDaBl19. You can also use these as hashtags for Twitter and other Social Networks to give your post more exposure.
No matter which music the prompt favours you create with it whatever you please, and whatever length you please (no pun intended ) as long as it is about LOVE.
I post the prompt post the day before which is connected with the music for that day so you have some time to make up your mind and create your post. There wont be two different posts and I hope its not too confusing.
If you like, use this picture for your readers to find the posts

What to choose, what to choose!

Ok I found a good one I think!

Here’s my choice for the prompt!
I just adore this one song!



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Friendly fill ins week 141

This week I am participating in the friendly fill ins challenge, I dont have the hosts links to hand, but if you google friendly fill ins I am sure you’ll find them on wordpress.

So here are the 4 questions that we are challenged to answer.

1. I get to take a long, bubble bath this weekend! Now that is what I call a little piece of heaven!

2. So far, 2019 is full of work and studying! I need a vacation already!

3. I will never tire of snuggling with our pets. Its such a good feeling to feel their fur and warmth.

4. Can you believe that its almost february? I cant! Time is just flying by!

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#JusJoJan daily prompt january 4th 2019

Welcome to another JJJ prompt!

Here are the rules:

1. Please be sure to link back to THIS POST for January 4th, 2019.

2. Just Jot It January starts January 1st, but its never too late to join in! Here, we run on the honour system; the jot it part of JusJoJan means that anything you jot down, anywhere (it doesnt have to be a post, it can even be a grocery list) counts as a jot. If it makes it to your blog that day, great! If it waits a week to get from a sticky note to your screen, no problem!

3. Ill post prompts at 2am my time (GMT -5). You dont have to follow the prompt every day, but that will be where you leave your link for others to see. Youll get a prompt for every day except Wednesday, when the prompt is simply my One-Liner Wednesday and on Saturday, when your prompt will be the Friday Reminder and Prompt for #SoCS, which will appear at about 9:30am Friday. Each prompt post will include the rules. To ping back, just copy the URL from the daily prompt post, and paste it anywhere in your post. Check to make sure your link shows up where you want it to, and go back occasionally to see other bloggers entries the more you visit others, the more theyll visit you! Note: The newest pingbacks will be at the top of the comments section.

4. Tag your post JusJoJan and/or #JusJoJan.

5. Write anything! Any length will do! It can even be a photo or a drawing youre going to title it, right? Theres your jot!

6. The prompts will appear every day thats neither a Wednesday nor a SaturdaySaturdays JusJoJan prompt will be Stream of Consciousness Saturday. Youll find the list of prompts below. Remember, you dont have to use the prompts. Please write whatever inspires you. NOTE: Please state either in your title or very early on in your post if its NSFW.

7. If youd like to, use the JusJoJan badge so that others can find your post more easily.

8. Have fun!

The prompt for today friday jan 4th is enigmatic!

This was a hard one for me to write about!
In fact I’m not sure what to write, so maybe a poem?
Ok here goes!

sitting so pretty
her blue eyes so enigmatic
dazzling in the sunlight
she spoke softly
her voice no more than a whisper
that enigmatic sound
you couldnt miss it
no matter how hard you tried to tune it out
there she was
in all her glory
now what was her story?


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Time too…

Its time to Charge up my apple watch! Tomorrow I start my exercise regime! I am going to aim to get 10 thousand steps in! I hope I can! I have some workouts that I can use on my phone, I got them from a friend, they are walk a mile in 20 minutes, I think I can do it!
Then on Friday I go to the gym! I am aiming to do 40 minutes on the treadmill! And 15 or 20 on the bike!
Its time to hit the ground, running!
If I charge up my watch, it will keep track of the exercise I do. That way I can log my activity which I really want to do!
If I do this and do it right, I can also get my body magic award in slimming world, for the bronze award, you need to do 3 15 minute sessions in a week, for four weeks.
I am also hoping to go to the gym on Saturday!

2019 New years goals!

Ok, I dont make resolutions but… I thought I’d list some of my new years goals! Goals I’d like to accomplish in 2019!

1 Continue to lose weight! I’m now down over 2 stone! In only 8 months! I have 4 more stone to lose, for my US readers thats about 60 pound! I plan on continuing to go to slimming world this year, and I plan on losing it all!

2 Continue with therapy. Continue on my healing journey, and continue to make peace with my past!

3 Have some adventures! I am planning to go on vacation a few times this year, with family. Our first one will be in Febuary, for my nieces 11th birthday. I love adventure, and I love vacations!

4 Study! I start college next week. I am doing a year long course in mental health in the community. I plan on working super hard at it. Learning is something that I love.

5 Continue volunteering at friendly call! My volunteer work is so rewarding. And its something I am good at and something I really love. This coming year I plan on doing more of that.

6 Going to family events! My cousin is making his communion in May, my other cousin is getting married in June, so we have two big family gatherings! Sometimes family gatherings are hard for me, so this year I plan on working on that with my therapist! I plan on going, and making memories, good memories, and on making the days count.

7 Working hard at recovery, in every sense. Not just therapy, but my overall recovery, my physical health, mental health, spiritual health, too! I plan on doing some really deep healing work this coming year.

So…2019 here I come! If I can achieve some or all of these goals I’ll be a very happy camper!

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New years eve was quiet

so not much went on for me. as i said i stayed home with my parents. we ate food, and watched tv. i went to bed early. i was so tired. i didnt even end up staying up until midnight. i’ve never not stayed up. this was my first year of not doing that. i went to bed around 9 PM. i felt bad for not staying up to wish my parents a happy new year, but i wished them a happy new year before going in to bed. i’m glad i did, as nitro woke me later on, around midnight. the fireworks were going off and he was panicking. afraid of them. he was panting and whimpering for a long time. i tried to reassure him. i tried to soothe him as much as i could. eventually he calmed down once they finished. they lasted about half an hour. he’s sleeping now. i finally got back to sleep for another few hours. i woke around 3 AM. i couldnt get back to sleep so got up. i’m probably not going back to sleep now any more tonight. i cant believe its january 1st. did you all have a good new years eve? what did you do for it? anything exciting? or fun? do you make resolutions? i didnt make a whole lot of them this year. i will be happy if they year is good to me. if i accomplish the things i’m hopeful of accomplishing. today i am working. on friendly call. for a few hours, this morning. then my sister comes to my parents for dinner. and i’ll go home to my own house later. my sister will give me a ride home. it is going to be weird to be back home after so many days of not being there and of being at my parents house. it will be nice to get back to my own space again. my friend gave me a christmas box which i havent opened. the littles are excited to open it. there are treats in it which they want to get into. i’ll have to put them out of reach from the kids or else they’ll eat them all in one go. i plan on eating them over a few months, not all in one go. we’re going to unbox the stuff on video so our friend can see them open it. its so exciting. i cant wait to do it. well i hope this new years was good for you. and i hope your all ready to embrace 2019.

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