Irritating

So…I’ve been banned from a craft email list. A blind crafters list. I cannot believe it. Banned for posting too many messages. The owner said I didn’t know what the focus of the group was. But I do, its crafting, all things crafty! I posted asking for crafting ideas and beading patterns, and I posted asking how much a loom to loom knit would cost me. He said I posted to many craft suggestions all at once and how was I going to do them all. Well I wasn’t…I was just asking to get info! And now that’s a crime! HOnestly? If that is how they run a list then I don’t want to be part of it. But I am hurt because he’s emailing the other people who are helping him manage his list and ccing me in on the email and hearing them talk about me hurts. Him saying was he too hasty in getting rid of me and then saying he sent my reply to his other helper and would they just ignore me and he was leaning towards ignoring my reply. Well then fuck it. Who cares. Go ahead ignore me. It wont be anything I’m not used to. People have ignored me all my life. I don’t need you and I don’t need your list.
Banning someome bc they are excited to be part of a craft group for the blind and posting a lot is stupid. who agrees?

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Author: manyofus1980

I am a woman in my mid 30's. I'm blind and I have dissociative identity disorder, I also have complex PTSD. I blog about my life with these disorders. I live in Ireland.

10 thoughts on “Irritating”

  1. That is ridiculous and cruel. If he thought there was a problem the way to sort it is to say something to you PRIVATELY and give you a chance to reply and explain or change what you’re doing. And if he genuinely didn’t know what to do or what to say to you, to maybe discretely ask someone else’s advice. Certainly not to discuss it with multiple other people on an email list but not include you in the discussion and then ban you. You are well rid of people like that.

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    1. I know 😦 he also sent me copies of the emails that he sent to the other people 😦 so I was included in those emails in the hurtful emails that he sent. It was awful. I felt so hurt 😦 just like people were really putting me down and ignoring me I don’t care any more though, I’m glad to be rid of that list

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  2. Sweetheart you are better off without being a part of this group. You are too sweet to be treated this way and they are not very nice to act this way to you. There are other groups that will lift e you up and not put you down. I hope you are doing okay and not letting them upset you. Sending hugs! .

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      1. Oh I am so glad you are feeling better! Your eating and drinking some of my favorite things. Yes I have recently moved and we had a hurricane here in Texas and I have not been on here for awhile. It is good to be back and to hear from you. Take care sweetie!

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