what am i doing right now? sitting here on the couch in my little mini apartment thinking. nitro is sitting with me, snuggling into my side. he’s such a sweet boy.
i’ve been doing some more thinking about jess. a friend asked me if her mom has guardianship of her and what happens to her. i think she does. i know her mom was instramental in having her placed in the long term psych facility she’s in now. she did not want her to live with her any longer. and to this day since she went in her mom says she doesnt want her to come home.
it was notjess’s choice to go there. she didnt want to go. she didnt fight it because she really couldnt. she was admitted to hospital for two weeks, a psych ward, and sent to royal oaks straight from the hospital. there was no choice.
i know she was struggling. i know she had been really depressed and psychotic. she had been having hallucinations and struggling to function day to day. she was seeing a case manager at the time. and her therapist also but she was only seeing her therapist every 3 weeks at the time, due again to her mom not being able to take her and jess having no other way of getting there because her mom sold her car.
if you ask me, and i know her, i’ve seen her enought imes when i visited, her mom is a control freak. her mom is a social worker by profession. she adopted jess when jess was 10. they do not really have the best of relationships. she adopted her, promising to help her, help her recover from her trauma, she never sent her to therapy. she didnt do anything to help her.
she knows jess has did. she is totally aware of it. she entertains it when and if she feels like it. i dont know how many times she has rejected the littles though. i cant count the amount of times i have sat with them as they cried feeling unwanted and unloved.
its so sad. and now she’s controlling them again. now she has all of the say over what happens in their life. its devastating.
Does anyone know what happens or will happen if jess’s mom does have guardianship of her and she dies?
I’m not sure how the system works in the USA?
This is the stuff I am thinking about tonight.