Cancelled lunch plans

So I just got a notification that my former PA cancelled our lunch date today. I am a bit annoyed to be honest. This is the second time she has cancelled it. She said something came up, and maybe it did. But I would’ve liked more than three hours notice. If it was me I would’ve given as much notice as I could. So I guess I’m just going to chill out for the day. I don’t have too much to do. I need to pack but that’s about all I have to do. So will probably read do email catch up on blogs and relax for the rest of the day. I hate it when plans go pear-shaped. Do others feel the same way? Does it bother you when you have something planned and the other person back so is not once but twice is on me but does it bother you when they back out at the last minutes?


Author: manyofus1980

I am a woman in my mid 30's. I'm blind and I have dissociative identity disorder, I also have complex PTSD. I blog about my life with these disorders. I live in Ireland.

4 thoughts on “Cancelled lunch plans”

  1. Good morning yes it does really matter to me if plans get cancelled in the last minute. My therapist gave me another appointment the day before and I almost “ticked out”. So I did not go at all which I think was a bit stupid for a grown up person but I suppose not all parts in me are grown up. I personally get VERY scared when people change plans and let me know it in the last minute or NOT AT ALL. I suppose this is because I did not have a reliable life at all and so we need more control than other people. And there is a difference between having a plan for the day and not having an idea for the day at all. So I can understand you very well. I hate the same things. By the way my therapist apologized to me later and thats why I CAN TRUST HIM. Wish you a very good day


    1. thanks for sharing all this with me. You are right. and i never thought of it in that way. its the having control, knowing what is coming up in your day, and yes that is important to me too. xoxo


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